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@alice@lgbtqia.space  ·  activity timestamp 2 hours ago

Oof, I just had the most bittersweet revelation a moment ago.

Like really...for the first time. It's wild.

Mom: [your ex] and I are planning the brunch menu for the 28th. Start at 10:30? Would you be able to bring mimosa ingredients?

Alice: I literally have $8 in my account right now. I spent what I had on [my kid's] present.

Mom: OK. I'll get the ingredients.

Alice: Sorry. I had to spend money on medical bills earlier this month, and I kinda live off tips right now.

Mom: That's okay.

Alice: Lack of money sucks, but I've never been happier (and for the first time in my life I haven't been suicidal for over a year).
Mom: [your ex] and I are planning the brunch menu for the 28th. Start at 10:30? Would you be able to bring mimosa ingredients? Alice: I literally have $8 in my account right now. I spent what I had on [my kid's] present. Mom: OK. I'll get the ingredients. Alice: Sorry. I had to spend money on medical bills earlier this month, and I kinda live off tips right now. Mom: That's okay. Alice: Lack of money sucks, but I've never been happier (and for the first time in my life I haven't been suicidal for over a year).
Mom: [your ex] and I are planning the brunch menu for the 28th. Start at 10:30? Would you be able to bring mimosa ingredients? Alice: I literally have $8 in my account right now. I spent what I had on [my kid's] present. Mom: OK. I'll get the ingredients. Alice: Sorry. I had to spend money on medical bills earlier this month, and I kinda live off tips right now. Mom: That's okay. Alice: Lack of money sucks, but I've never been happier (and for the first time in my life I haven't been suicidal for over a year).
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Lou 🏳️‍⚧️
@koalou@lgbtqia.space replied  ·  activity timestamp 21 minutes ago

@alice
neocat_heart

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Jank Hambrams
@jankhambrams@meh.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 1 hour ago

@alice I am very very glad you're in a much happier place now. You're awesome and deserve that happiness! :)

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Weird Socks
@ohmu@social.seattle.wa.us replied  ·  activity timestamp 1 hour ago

@alice
I'm calling that a win.

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David 🔜 39c3
@sa7dse@chaos.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 hours ago

@alice That is such good news! I am really glad!

You can be very proud of yourself. Well done! 🥰 rainbow_heart

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Julius Schwartzenberg - Юліус
@jschwart@mas.to replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 hours ago

@alice I don't fully understand the conversation. "That's okay." is the response, but when somebody is living off tips and needs to pay so much on medical bills that they end up with just $8 it seems very far from "okay"..

It seems great they are at least happier and not suicidal, but I would really hope that everything will really be okay!!

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@alice@lgbtqia.space replied  ·  activity timestamp 1 hour ago

@jschwart my mom (who has been comfortably middle class and hasn't had to work for decades) casually asking me to bring a few bottles of champagne to brunch. She's a little out of touch with how most folx live.

I used to be a (tenuously) middle class executive, until I had a breakdown, tried to kill myself, fled an abusive marriage, and got laid off shortly after. Now I actually really like my life (even though I'm pretty poor).

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Willow, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️
@Willow@chaosfem.tw replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 hours ago

@alice <sits nearby for company>

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Clifton Royston
@CliftonR@wandering.shop replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 hours ago

@alice

I offer you all the hugs, if welcome.

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PalmAndNeedle
@PalmAndNeedle@norden.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 hours ago

@alice Love that fact 💜

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Everyday.Human Derek
@EVDHmn@ecoevo.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 hours ago

@alice
That you were in a better place ? ❤️‍🩹❤️👀

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