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Despite continuing obstructionism the tiny human is finally home!

Given the short notice I had to spend nearly $300 in today to same day ship a toddler bed, taking an uber, and doing a toddler basics shopping run (current size diapers, toiletries, snacks etc).

We are in urgent need of a larger clothing shopping trip immediately. Their other parent provided them without winter clothes(not even a basic jacket) and with only one set of socks and a single spire diaper.

https://chuffed.org/project/145522-help-falsely-accused-black-dad-get-back-on-his-feet

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Help falsely accused Black dad get back on his feet

Earlier this summer I was falsely accused of domestic violence and instantly made homeless and unable to see my daughter. Thankfully after three months of court I was found innocent and my accuser was scolded by multiple judges for repeatedly lying.Despite being found innocent of any wrong doing I still face massive legal costs.So far I've been billed over $15k! I'm very fortunate to have had a lawyer who worked tirelessly to protect my rights but I've paid the majority of the legal bill out of pocket, completely depleting my rainy day funds.Donations will help my stablize my life by staying on top of these legal bills, saving up for a new apartment and having money on hand to take care of my daughter.

nullagent

@nullagent@partyon.xyz replied · 2 weeks ago

It is painfully clear we have both spent all of our money in court and now I'm begging.

I need to hit this goal asap. I have other major bills already over due and now have spent the money I was saving for those dealing with this stuff today 😭

$720 / $1000

Venmo / cashapp $nullagent

#MutualAidRequest

nullagent

@nullagent@partyon.xyz replied · 6 days ago

My ex wishes to sow confusion.
There was no confusion in the courts eyes.

My ex filed false claims in court THREE times. They tried to have me arrested constantly during the court process for made up violations which never occurred.

The courts were not amused and thankfully saw through these abusive antics at every turn so far.
When you cost a black dad $25k in legal fees over obviously false claims, there is no confusion whose weaponizing the system.

#FamilyCourt #WA #CourtWatch #Ruling

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@nullagent@partyon.xyz replied · 6 days ago

I Finally got some quality time with my daughter. Will be more regular going forward.

Wish I could say I was able to focus on the tiny human, but to be perfectly honest I'm having the time of my life getting harassed by my ex and their tiktok followers. My ex has been constantly attempting to bait me into conflict and then IMMEDIATELY posting our texts onto their social media here and on other social media.

If you see these types of posts, please report them and kindly ask them to stop.

nullagent

@nullagent@partyon.xyz replied · 6 days ago

I just want to be a dad but instead my co-parent can crash out on TikTok for months calling me an abuser while suing me in court. Loose in court three times THEN still call me an abuser. Then turn around and send 20x threatening texts a day and act like I'm the one making co-parenting difficult.

They started this morning at 7am with threats to have me arrested and claims I'm transphobic.

I don't need to speak to them till next Wednesday.

nullagent

@nullagent@partyon.xyz replied · 6 days ago

It's clear they need me to be upset.

But the things is I'm free from their abuse AND I have a court order saying I'm the dad I know I am.

It's really sad to experience this pattern again after breaking up with them. This entire court ordeal has just been a never ending cycle of their attempts to control my life.

That's ok... there's hiphop for these moments and I'm happy with the Man in the Mirror and that's all I need fr fr.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kUxwT_GBNe8

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