Well it took a whole long weekend of troubleshooting and rebuilding, but once again my #homelab is running smoothly. There were a few factors that combined to degrade things to a point where I just needed to examine my whole network and what was running on my machines.
The root turned out to be a network bridge configured with #systemd-networkd not playing nicely with docker being installed to run a big compilation job.
Once #docker screwed with the network config things spiralled from there.