if I mention something annoying that Google and Apple are doing so that you are informed and can choose to avoid or mitigate it, people argue with me as if I am the head of marketing at Google or Apple and it was all my idea. If I mention a fraudulent scam, people argue with me as if I'm a customer service representative of Criminal Fraud Incorporated and owe them a refund.
Others tell me my patience with randos in my menchies is *astonishingly* high compared to theirs, but this stuff makes me regret trying. Why do so many people online insist on annoying the messenger into wishing she'd never posted?