They say 80-90% of men are seeking to harm women.
My own stats with every man I’ve encountered…that sounds right. For my experience closer to 90%.
The other 10% are silent and do nothing to compensate the women around them suffering from it. They try to fit in to patriarchy unnoticed. They don’t play the way the abusers play…but they still play & profit from it.
So, for me it really is all men.