Greetings to the people of the #forkiverse
I hope this post reaches you. You are not alone out there

We have starterpacks, directories of people curated by people and interest https://fedidevs.com/starter-packs/?tab=community
Maybe others can even help by setting up their own starterpacks.

Also: try different apps! As you are using the fediverse there are many projects going on, with different apps, UX and so on, to name a few: the official mastodon app, tusky, moshidon, fedilab and ice cube for iOS. Try them out✨