My old retired downstairs neighbour put a glass of bird food in front of my door for me to find it.
Which was initially a wonderful and kind gesture has me now agonizing about how and when or if I should thank her. We see each other maybe once every 3 or 4 months because out lives simply have too different schedules.
Do I dress properly just to hop two floors down or do I do it in my baggy home clothes? Do I pretend to leave the house and happen to walk by because there's the definite danger that she invites me in and I don't do thing like ~that? Argh, why is this so hard.