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KaCi :AuPan:
KaCi :AuPan:
@KaCi@autistics.life  路  activity timestamp 2 days ago

Like many autistic people I am not a fan of icebreakers, introducing myself, but I love lists. So I made a list of things that are important to me. I recently discovered this as a powerful tool for self reflection, but it can also help building connections with other people.

So if many things on this list resonate with you, feel free to send me a dm or give me a follow. We might have a lot to share with each other. 馃檪

I put a CW on the list and added it as a subtoot to this post, because it became a very long list.

Boosts are welcome.

#ActuallyAutistic #neurodivergent #AuDHD @autistics

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KaCi :AuPan:
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@KaCi@autistics.life replied  路  activity timestamp 2 days ago

What I like and what is important to me:
Beagle Lumi
My friends
Community, the autistic online community
Birds, my crow friend
Trees and other plants
Water
Watching the sky
Beauty
Imperfection
Repetition
Problem solving
Repairing things
Details
Objects
Patterns
Photos
Silence
Sounds
Voices
Music
Dancing
Laughing (a lot)
Singing
Echolalia
Speaking English
Moving my hands intensively
Walking
Reading
Talking
Writing
Cooking
Closeness
Space
Meaningful connection
Experiences
Memories
Safe spaces and people
Alone time
Self expression
The power of imagination
Sensitivity
Mindfulness
Emotional warmth
Understanding systems, patterns, structures, causality chains and dynamics
Accountability
Responsibility
Critical thinking skills
Rationality
Deconstructing normativity and other harmful systems and thinking patterns and unlearning them
Learning about History
Accessibility
Inclusivity
Understanding intersectionality
The neurodiversity paradigm
Working on understanding myself and other people
Connection
Feelings
Shared everyday life
Caring for someone
Tao
Mutual support
Mad pride
Start Trek (DS9, Voyager)
Civ6
Books
Mind maps
Data visualisations and information graphics
Structuring information
Plant based food
Pink light
Black, comfortable clothes
Soft skin, fur, fabric
Hands
A natural smile
The depth in eyes
Being in a flow
Monotropic minds
Hugs
Pressure
Intensity
Intimacy
Strong and flexible routines
Shared routines
Relaxation
Soft blankets
Honesty
Trust
Myself
Lists

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