@ozoned thanks so much!
This will be a one-user instance. I'll see how many resources it uses before changing that (five years ago I spent too much money on it but I was also doing it via YunoHost so was probably missing stuff).
I only got three submissions - one was a short film which I published, then there was a grainy copy of Maze Runner 3 then the HD Dune which forced me to shut signups. Human vetting sounds like the answer.
Sidenote: those sound good prices. I've been on social.coop since 2017 as it was the only instance back then that unashamedly asked for money to pay for bills and towards time…
One Q "if you want to federate with me" - does that mean peering videos / WebRTC? Or more like following to establish more legitimacy across the fediverse.