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pheonix
@pheonix@hachyderm.io  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

Sometime around the 2020 era, we lost the right to be mediocre at things we love.

No longer can you just bake bread...you must start a sourdough side hustle lol. Wanna stay fit and go jogging or running? Nah, you gotta optimize your biometrics for a marathon. What my point is that every hobby has been enshittified and gentrified into a brand opportunity.

This strange infatuation with optimization culture is killing the human spirit.

So this new year, starting tomorrow, one of my resolutions is to do something bad but fun. Maybe I write a terrible poem. I like to draw and paint, so perhaps I will draw a horse that looks like a table or sing off-key in the showers or in front of my loved ones. The algorithm driving the mainstream social media wants me to be a polished product, but my humanity lives in these messy, unoptimized, cringe-inducing joyful failures.

I will try to reclaim the right to be an amateur. Will you join me?

#creativity #hobbies #art #depression #socialmedia #newyear #resolution #happynewyear #MentalHealth #Culture #enshittification #creative #design #writing #reading #books #drawing #music #gardening #nature #running #fitness

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Jan Ainali
Jan Ainali
@ainali@social.coop  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

@pheonix yes! yes, and I will also take it offline. Doing something nondigital every day.

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pheonix
pheonix
@pheonix@hachyderm.io  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

@ainali that's the spirit

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der.hans
der.hans
@lufthans@mastodon.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

@pheonix I have continued singing poorly for my family

Not going to stop despite their heartfelt requests :)

Props to the "here's what I got, eh" lifestyle

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yuhasz01
yuhasz01
@yuhasz01@mastodon.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

@pheonix

“Practice any art, music, singing, dancing, acting, drawing, painting, sculpting, poetry, fiction, essays, reportage, no matter how well or badly, not to get money and fame, but to experience becoming, to find out what's inside you, to make your soul grow.”

- Kurt Vonnegut, American author

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Heather 👻
Heather 👻
@Akki@toot.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

@pheonix TV Programmes have made everything a competition when it never was. Pottery. Sewing. Knitting. It's frustrating. It was never a race or a competition.

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A-Ho-Ho-Ho-aly BSC SSC
A-Ho-Ho-Ho-aly BSC SSC
@Anomnomnomaly@beige.party  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

@pheonix

I've been saying this for about a decade or so now. I think it applies here.

If you have a hobby, something that you enjoy, that brings you pleasure... If that hobby is legal and harms no one else... You go an enjoy the fuck out of it.

If anyone... and I do mean ANYONE, tries to make you feel small because of it... if they tell you it's childish, that it's silly, pointless, a waste of your time. If they insult you, are derisive about it... That person... Is a wanker.

They think that everyone should only do things that they approve off, they're judgemental arseholes and you don't need people like that in your life.

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FiXato
FiXato
@FiXato@toot.cat  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

@Anomnomnomaly and if you have a hobby, don't try to make money out of it, because then it becomes work and you'll have to find a new hobby.
In fact, a hobby can cost money. The worth of the hobby is your well-being, not a monetary return, or even skill improvement.
@pheonix

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Roland Siegloff
Roland Siegloff
@rolandsiegloff@mastodon.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

@pheonix Yes, let's bake sourdough bread only for our own consumption and occasionally for our lovely neighbours.

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